The Grand Feminist Contradiction.

This is a dirty post, probably the dirtiest ever posted here on this site. But since I noticed some traffic to my posts about Russian liberals coming from German porn-sites I might as well feed the beast...

One of the primary concerns of contemporary feminists is defending the right to abortion. Pro-lifers are the greatest of enemies. If one reads some of the debates between feminists and the anti-abortionists then it becomes clear that they do not consider sex to be an activity leading to pregnancy. It always makes me wanna say: 'If you wanna have sex as a pleasurable activity, then don't forget to take a pill or make your partner wear a condom, you dumb slut!'

Another, activity, and shall we say, the one in which feminists had been extraordinarily successful at is the attack on traditional marriage. This is where they show their true Marxist roots. The housewife in their discourse is a poor slave waiting to be liberated. However, when there happens to be a woman who supports traditional marriage and states that she enjoys taking care of his partner and his children, then all hell breaks loose. These women get the most hate, men who propagate this are never treated this badly.

No-fault divorce and divorce culture are all feminist creation. Of course, the new laws are not adjusted so the men benefit from them. No, the laws are as they were, child support, alimony and other luxuries for the women. There are other laws that can make men's lives hell now days. You might say that those who suffer are unfortunates. Sadly there are too many of them.

You also often hear that you should not judge women, even if what they do something morally wrong. If you are a man, then you will be denounced as patriarchal, old fashioned, chauvinistic. You are not even allowed to say that men are better at doing certain things then women. No criticism is allowed!

At the same time there seems to be an effort by the feminists to combat phenomena such as prostitution, pornography, nudity, strip-clubs and even beauty pageants. I have heard feminists say that this is not us, it is the radical Dworkinesque fringe doing that. Well, maybe that is true but I have to be convinced about it first, through feminist actions. In London, where I mostly reside, the feminists are very much against even beauty pageants. Saw that in universities with my own eyes. In Iceland, the unashamed feminist in charge banned the strip-clubs. 

But if you think about it. Abortion has greatly facilitated the porn and prostitution industry. Pregnancy is now considered an injury at work, have an abortion and you are back in the business. Lack of shame has made many women wanna do it, nobody tells them anything. I mean the feminists even celebrate being a slut. Only problem they have is with being a slut and getting paid for it, or filmed/photographed at it, watched at it, or whatever. That's 'sexual objectification.'

The men in the current situation make perfect customers. The marriage strike is a real deal, and porn, whores, and stip-clubs are still relatively cheap. Relative to a bad marriage of course. Let's say you are a wealthy man, you visit the best prostitute in town once a month. My humble calculations tell me that she does not cost more than dating an attractive woman (even if you go Dutch, she costs too much time), wedding, divorce settlement, alimony, child support plus all the little (or potentially large) things in between. The only risks remaining are herpes or worse, but you can never be sure what ordinary women today are contaminated with either.

There are several explanations to why feminists are so against pornography etc. Female competition might be one of these. These girls (feminists) and those girls (porn stars, prostitutes) just do not always look alike. But what do we do with those good looking feminists that are so anti. This explanation, while it can definitely be used for opposition towards strip-clubs, nudity and beauty pageants is insufficient.

My own explanation is that feminists want a complete control of the sexual market for the women. Abortion is one of those means of control. However, control also demands making men's access to sex less easy. They do not like seeing men having fun without really pondering to women. They do not really like seeing men having fun at all! The position they hate the most is 'double penetration' and they always project DP on to the screen in their lectures and shows. See, that's two men having fun. I am not sure if they got to 'gang-banging' yet because that's multiple men having fun.

If you have a nagging wife or girlfriend, you do not have to care about her. You will still get sex tonight, the vagina power had been vanquished. It is no wonder most of prostitutes' clients are married men. The divorce culture and feminism has reduced a large part of the ordinary women to whores anyway, the real whores are at least honest. Unfortunately that is the harsh reality the feminist had created. But they cannot have female liberation without reducing women to whores, they cannot have it both ways.    

Comments

[Mark]

Whatever happened to feminists like Nora Ephron? "Crazy Salad" was not only a witty and interesting book, it posed questions that made you ask yourself, "I wonder why I never noticed how stupid that is before?", such as why the designers of brassieres were all men, or that it was men who sold women on the idea of feminine deodorant spray when a woman who observes proper personal hygiene does not smell bad.

Norah Ephron was a feminist who posed solutions that would allow men and women to live together in the world without despising one another. The current crop seems only interested in a scorched-earth campaign that will leave only one gender standing.